Have you seen this blog?
I came across this the other day, and I found it absolutely fascinating. Like really fascinating. I can’t stop reading. You’ll definitely want to spend some time there when you’re done here (you’re welcome), but in a nutshell:
It’s written by a woman who formerly worked in the fashion industry, and is currently studying the relationship between “beauty” and equality. The blog is about her year-long experiment – begun 6 months before her wedding – in which she completely gives up mirrors.
I love it. Love the concept, love her writing, love how it makes me think.
Body image and self image and how we perceive beauty in general are such a huge part of our culture. I like to pretend that they aren’t, but turning on a television or picking up a magazine or walking just about anywhere in public tells me otherwise.
My kids tell me otherwise too, in ways that break my heart. My 14 year old starting to worry about shaving and acne and what girls will think of his appearance. My 11 year old, who has finally stopped cutting off all his curls because he thought that straight hair was cooler. My three year old little girl, who’s already been told by a proud 5 year old cousin: “You’re not as skinny as me.”
It all makes me sad, and certainly isn’t a subject that can be covered (or covered well anyway) in one single blog post. I think I just might write about it some more in the future. In the meantime, check out her blog, and be inspired.