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Positive Parenting in Action – Review & Giveaway

What we’re truly doing is going back to our heart – our humanity – to bring up our children in love, not fear.  ~ Rebecca Eanes & Laura Ling

Positive parenting is a concept that confuses a lot of people.  So ingrained is our society with the traditional, authoritarian style of parenting, people tend to assume that no punishments must surely equal no parenting.

The opposite is true.

Positive parenting is a highly responsive and attentive type of parenting, one in which our relationship with our children is paramount, and kids are guided (guided, not ignored) with love, respect, and kindness.  In short, positive parents treat their children they way they themselves would like to be treated.  The question that is on many people’s minds is, “But how do I do it?”

Positive Parenting in Action, a new ebook by Rebecca Eanes (owner and author of the Positive Parenting website, and the founder of the popular Facebook page, Positive Parenting:  Toddlers and Beyond) and Laura Ling, breaks it all down in a really lovely and encouraging way.   Instead of just offering up vague advice about what NOT to do, it instead gives the reader clear and loving examples on respectful ways to handle everything from tantrums to aggressive or dangerous behavior to sibling rivalry to potty learning.

Even with all of these examples (there are more than 50 pages worth of common scenarios), this is not a how-to book that a promises if you employ a specific method, your children will turn out a certain way.  In fact, as it says in the very beginning of the book, “Positive Parenting isn’t a method, but a philosophy – a way of seeing our children and our relationship with them.”  The common thread throughout all the parenting examples given is that connection with the child and maintaining a position of love and empathy are top priority.  All parent/child relationships are different, because all children are different. This book allows for that, while still holding the position that there is a always a way to respond with kindness and understanding rather than with anger or punishment.

I think what I loved most about this book is that it never once resorts to shaming parents into feeling like they’ve somehow failed, or like they’ve surely messed up their children by not doing things differently.  Instead it acts as both coach and cheerleader, offering both practical advice (and lots of it) as well as gentle encouragement to follow the innate, loving, Mama instinct that was there all along.

While it’s aimed at parents with children from ages 0 through 6, it feel it holds value for all parents wanting to learn more about the positive parenting philosophy…. from those with brand-new babies, to seasoned moms of four like myself.   I truly enjoyed this book, and gleaned much from its pages.

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Want to a win free copy?  Just leave a comment telling me why you need to read this book.   Share the link to this post on Facebook and/or Twitter for up to two bonus entries (let me know which ones you’ve done.)  One lucky reader will be selected at random, and announced next Friday, April 20th.  Good luck!

Winner is Amy D!   Thanks everyone for participating!

Can’t wait to read it?  You can purchase a copy here.

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Book giveaway: Illusion by Frank Peretti

 

One of my favorite books of all-time is a book called This Present Darkness, by Frank Peretti.  It’s a novel about spiritual warfare, and is one of those books that has stayed with me the entire 20 years since I’ve read it.  I read – and enjoyed – its sequel, Piercing the Darkness, but I hadn’t read a Peretti book since.

So you can imagine how thrilled I was when I was asked to read and review his newest novel, Illusion.  I started reading it immediately the day I received it, and didn’t put it down for the next few days until I’d finished it.  Quite simply, it did not disappoint.

Illusion tells the story of Dane and Mandy Collins, husband and wife and popular magic act for forty years.  When Mandy is killed in a horrific car accident, Dane is consumed with grief.  As he mourns, Mandy returns to life… but as her 19-year-old year old self in the present day.   Drawn to each other by a connection neither can explain, the two meet and eventually enter into a mentor/protege relationship.

Mandy finds work as an illusionist and performer at a local coffee house, and with Dane as her coach, begins to forge a successful career as a solo magician.  As she tries to piece together who she is and how she got here, Dane tries to reconcile his feelings for this beautiful young girl who reminds him so much of his wife.    Meanwhile, the pair is being watched – closely – by the people who hold all the answers they’re looking for.

I must confess I don’t ordinarily read books about things such as time travel, but Peretti writes it in such a way that he makes me a believer.  His characters are sympathetic and true-to-life, and their relationship (both in the past and the present) is heartfelt and inspiring.  He made me root for the good guys and boo for the bad guys, and crafted a story that is full of heart, twists, and turns.  The last 100 pages especially were like a roller coaster hurtling to the bottom of the giant drop.  It was a book I simply couldn’t put down. *

Want to win your own copy and see if you love it as much as I did?   One reader will win a brand-new (soft-cover) edition of this book, just released this month.

Here’s what you gotta know:

There are four ways to enter.   Please leave just ONE comment letting me know which ones you’ve done.   The giveaway will stay open for one week, and a winner will be randomly selected on Friday, April 6th.  I will announce the winner on my blog, but I will also contact you by email.  So make sure you’re leaving a valid address (I won’t use it for any other purpose, I promise. :))

1.  Post a comment on this entry, any old comment at all.

2.  Share the link to this giveaway on Facebook.

3.  Share the link to this giveaway on Twitter.

4.  Let me know one of YOUR favorite books of all time.

Good luck!

(*All opinions are my own.  I wasn’t required to give a positive review*)

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Parenting Wild Things Winner

Thanks to all who came out to support the Parenting Wild Things book, and to Jessica for sharing her words of wisdom with the world!

The winner of the free copy is….

Shannan 🙂

Congratulations! Message me with the email address you’d like me to send it to, and I will get it to you right away.

Wanted to read it but didn’t win? Don’t fret, you can hop on over here and get yourself a copy for the cost of one of those big Frappucinos from Starbucks. (It goes down just as smoothly, and it won’t hurt your waistline)

And stay tuned for another cool giveaway in the semi-near future 😉

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Parenting Wild Things: Surviving the Rumpus

A few things you need to know about my friend Jessica of Bohemian Bowmans:

1. She is real. She writes with absolutely no pretense. Her words are always a refreshingly honest portrayal of the messy, the noisy, the joyful ups and downs that come with parenting four children. Her writing style is casual, friendly, and never leaves a doubt that what you are reading is 100% authentic.

2. She is funny. I have trouble relating to people who aren’t at least a little bit funny. Jessica made me laugh from day one, and has a healthy appreciation for sarcasm. I knew we’d get along after that first night that I discovered her blog (and could not stop reading)

3. She is me, ten years ago. We’re not the exact same mothers (because no two people ever are) but we both embarked on the same parenting and unschooling journey, armed with the same goal: to keep our wits about us as we strive for a closer, more peaceful, more harmonious relationship with our kids. She’s at the same place I was when I was her age, which is exactly what makes her writings so refreshing and relatable – especially to new and/or younger parents. She’s not just writing about it…. she’s living it.

In her new ebook (which I read in its entirety instead of cleaning the kitchen :)), Parenting Wild Things, she combines her raw, honest, and at times self-deprecating humor into a beautiful little tome based on her own journey to more mindful, gentle, and grace-filled parenting. It gives real and practical advice that anyone can start implementing right now… not in a preachy way, but in a girlfriends sitting around chatting over a cup of coffee way.

It’s filled with powerful analogies (“children are aliens, not criminals”), personal experience, and nuggets of wisdom. She’s even included cute Wild Thing photos for those of us who need pictures in our books. It’s a must-read for any parent, particularly those who are wanting to move from a traditional, authoritarian mindset to one of partnership and mutual respect.

You can pick up your copy here (it’s only $5!) and you can also go join the fun on Facebook.

Want to win a free copy? You know the drill!

1. Leave a comment on this post to be entered to win.

2. Share the link to this post on Facebook.

3. Share the link to this post on Twitter.

4. Like the Parenting Wild Things Facebook page.

Leave a comment letting me know which of the above you have done. Winner will be drawn at random on Friday, July 29th.

Thanks to Jessica and all four of her Wild Things!

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Book Review: The Heart Mender, by Andy Andrews

The Heart Mender’s inception was purely an accident. Author Andy Andrews stumbled upon a buried treasure next to his home on the Gulf Coast: an old, metal can containing Nazi artifacts from World War II. In his research and his quest to discover their origins, he ended up unearthing an amazing and touching story.

This book shares with us his discovery, then takes us back to 1942 to bring it all to life. Helen is a young American widow who lost her husband to World War II. Josef is a German sailor, wounded and left for dead on the beach. Still broken and grieving over the loss of her husband, and bitterly angry about the role the Nazis played in his death, she is at first tempted to leave the young sailor alone to die. She ultimately decides to come to his aid, and the story that follows is one of intrigue, heartbreak and forgiveness.

I’m not normally attracted to historical fiction, but this one won me over. I truly loved this book. The characters were so likable and relatable that they could have been friends of mine. The dialogue was crisp, real, and funny. The suspenseful pacing was excellent, revealing just enough at a time to make you keep reading, and it made it impossible to put the book down. The central theme of forgiveness was woven throughout the entire story, and it was illustrated in a powerful way. An added bonus? Some truly fascinating history about World War II that I’d never heard anywhere else.

If you’re a fan of historical fiction, like to be inspired, or just love a really great story… read it.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

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Book Review – Lies the Government Told You


Lies The Government Told You, by Andrew P. Napolitano

“If we fear our own government, if we accept its deceptions, its lies to us, if we take no action to redress them, our freedoms are doomed.” – Andrew Napolitano

Part history lesson, part cautionary tale, “Lies the Government Told You,” gives an honest and extremely unflinching look into the various ways we have been, and continue to be, lied to by the government. Using his vast knowledge and experience as a Superior Court Judge, Andrew Napolitano takes the reader through 17 specific lies, and shows us again and again how our freedoms are being assaulted by the very people we trust to protect them.

This book is an eye-opening must-read for anyone who is interested in learning the truth, no matter what your political affiliation. I was apprehensive to read it at first, as I didn’t want to read a book that would disparage any one political party. My fear was unfounded. Democrat, Republican, and everything in between were all fair game for Napolitano and his no-holds-barred look at everyone from Lincoln to Obama. It in turns taught me and terrified me, but more than anything else it angered me.

It should be noted that this is not a light-hearted beach read. It is heavy on facts, court cases, and dates, so readers who tend to get bogged down with details may have difficulty with certain sections. Otherwise, it is an engaging and interesting book, one that should be read by every concerned American, particularly those that are not content with just sitting back and doing and believing as they are told.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

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