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The Anatomy of a Gingerbread House

This was the first year we bought one of those pre-packaged gingerbread kits, in all its hydrogenated, artificially colored glory.
Everett immediately put himself in charge.
“I’m doing something fun with my brothers and it involves CANDY!”
Sometime around here, 2 year old disappeared.  She was clear across the house.
“No, I don’t have a mouth full of candy.”
Meanwhile, back in the kitchen…..
It was when I was taking pictures of the finished product that I saw the ever-widening gap on the ceiling.
Going.

Going.
Gone.
The whole thing took an hour, from box to table to mouth.  And it was worth every second, and every penny.
Seven days till Christmas.

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Changes in the Night

We bought this bed about 10 years ago. It was the first bed we purchased for ourselves (one of our first new pieces of furniture period, as most everything else up till that point had been hand-me-downs) Tegan has slept with us in this bed for nearly two and a half years now, and Paxton and Everett both happily slept in it from infancy to toddlerhood as well. 

One of the great things about co-sleeping, from a practical standpoint, is that it eliminates the nightly bedtime struggles, the difficult transitions, and the self-imposed stresses of “s/he should be in his own bed by now!”  When you open up your room and your bed to your child, at any age, for any reason, one season blends seamlessly into the next, and independence happens so organically that you’re not even aware of it.  You can be flexible and open to new sleeping arrangements, and changes and trials are no big deal.

It was over a year ago that we first started doing some room switching, which I blogged about here and here.  But because life is what it is, things evolved (see my above statement about being flexible), and we went with the current.   In December, the project turned into something else, which I mentioned at the end of this post.  Now, eight months later, it has come full-circle, and we completed – sort of – what we originally started.  Spencer decided he wanted his own room, and Paxton is content to continue to share with Everett for now.  Tegan’s little bed was moved right next to ours, for whenever she decides she’s ready for it. 

 Everett now has Spencer’s old bed:

And Spencer has his own room, shared only with the dog:

And everyone’s happy.

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The Story of Ice Cream

I think it’s important to know where your food comes from. This blog is to tell you where our food came from, specifically the ice cream we had two nights ago.

A few weeks ago, Everett asked me for ideas to work on his letters and reading. He likes books and websites, but he wanted to try something new; something that would be different every day. So we started writing letters on our chalkboard wall, and on our french doors with window markers. When the boys and I think of words that start with that letter, we write them on, and/or draw pictures. We think of things to bake that start with that letter, and think of games to play with that letter. Everett has loved this, and it’s been a fun little project.


This week, the letter on the wall was “I”. He’d been asking to make homemade icecream, so we surprised him and picked up some cream.

We got it started right after dinner. The beauty of homemade icecream is that it is just a few ingredients, and is so much better than anything you can get at a store!


We got it all mixed up and commenced the rolling in the family room. You do it in 15 minutes increments…. 15 minutes of rolling, open and scrape (and taste!), 15 more minutes of rolling.




We decided we needed some music after the first 15 minutes, so we cranked up a playlist (Bon Jovi, thank you very much), and the kids immediately turned ice-creaming making into a regular break-dancing, hip shaking, jam party.




Tegan grabbed a microphone.

We laughed. A lot.

And the final product was delicious.


And for good measure, the kids made these this week too:


The idea came from a book from Yaya, and the finished product came from the same place as the icecream: the hearts and creativity of some pretty cool kids, this time during a play date with new friends.

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Another Chapter

I started a new blog this morning, a blog devoted completely to nutrition and healthy living. It’s a work in progress of course, and I will expand it as I go, but please check it out! I’m very excited to have another project that I’m passionate about.

Back in Balance

PS Regular blog coming soon…

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Cleaning the Earth

Our very favorite thing to do as a family is to go out into the desert… driving, hiking, geocaching, exploring. Even just breathing in the air and drinking in the scenery. There is something so rejuvenating about it, something that makes the soul sigh and the heart smile. We love the desert.

Yesterday found us joining several hundred other like-minded valley residents for the third annual clean-up of Four Peaks.

We filled trash bag after trash bag,

trailer after trailer.

We picked up, loaded, drove, and deposited.

We stayed for hot dogs, and we stayed for the raffle drawing. Spencer won two off-roading DVDs (a more perfect prize for him could not have been), work gloves, and a Tread Lightly t-shirt.


And Everett won a Tread Lightly sweatshirt, conveniently sized big enough to fit his mother. He was thrilled to get it, as the sun was covered in clouds by that time, and he’d started to complain of getting chilly.


At the risk of repeating a long-held cliche, there truly is nothing quite like the sense of purpose and camaraderie you feel when you’re out in the earth, working with your hands, giving your time, and coming together for a common good. That there’s what life’s about.

Lest the day be too perfect though, there was just one minor “oops” with the trailer


…giving us a perfectly matched set.


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Cookies


Day 22 – Make Christmas Cookies

Another day over in a week that is going way too fast. I’m trying to resist the panicky feeling that comes with having too much to do and not enough time to do it. We were out for much of the day again today (we have so far been to the grocery store 4 days in a row now… plus the bank, Fed Ex, Target, T-Mobile, Blockbuster, the dollar store…. a restful vacation it is not.) and when we were home it was blend, blend, blend, and mix, mix, mix. All the dough is ready and waiting in the fridge, but we so far only got to cook and decorate the sugar cookies. Tomorrow we hope to actually stay home all day, get the cookies and treats finished, wrap some presents, and get everything clean and ready for Friday.

The kids are crazy excited (and at times just plain crazy) for Christmas, and can’t believe it’s only three days away.




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Gingerbread Houses and Cheeseburgers


Day 16 – Make Gingerbread Houses

The kids are getting tired. I feel badly that the ever elusive time of rest before Christmas has yet to come to fruition, and am so thankful that Mike is officially on vacation as of this Friday evening! We’re all needing that time together as a family.

Tegan has caught herself a cold – which while making her understandably want to be extra close to me, has oddly made her less grumpy instead of more – so we stayed close to home again. The boys made gingerbread houses, while Tegan played with the crackers and frosting and ate the candy. There were some frustrations (see my previous paragraph about everyone being over tired) but they were all happy with their end results, and cheerfully snacked on their houses all morning.

Mike had a Christmas party at work tonight, which because of the budget did not include spouses this year. So the kids and I were alone, and did something we rarely do and got fast food takeout for dinner. It was an unexpectedly nice little treat, and ended up refreshing us all.





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Google, Craigslist, and how I know they’re learning


Day 8 – Go to the library

Today was the first day of the advent that we were not able to do what we’d planned. We were going to go to the library, but Mike discovered a very flat tire on his Land Cruiser when he went out for work this morning. He took the Sequoia, and we were left carless. So instead of the library, we played at home and made cookies for the cookie swap we’re going to on Thursday.


Spencer came up to me today and asked me if I thought Craigslist was started by someone named Craig. I told him I didn’t know, but that it probably was, and we’d have to look it up to know for sure. He disappeared then, and came back just a few minutes later to give me a brief history of the site (It was indeed started by a Craig, Craig Newmark in 1995. He originally started it to post notices about events and happenings in his local city of San Francisco, and it grew to include sales, jobs, and apartments. He devoted himself fulltime to the site in 1999). The boys like to joke that they are not homeschooled, but Googleschooled, and for as much as they Google for information it is not far from the truth!

I love little moments like that, both because it’s just fun to learn interesting facts alongside the kids, and because it’s a tangible and visible answer to the question “How do you know they’re learning if you don’t test them/grade them/quiz them?”

How do I know they’re learning?

That one little five minute exchange showed – among other things – that Spencer has learned:

1. How to recognize a problem, and quickly find a way to solve it.
2. How to use the computer, to get where he needs to go, deduce the best keywords to use, and type and spell well enough to search for what he’s looking for.
3. How to sort through a large amount of information (a search for the history of Craigslist returns about 15 million results) and find what’s most relevant
4. How to quickly read, scan, and summarize text
5. How to relay that information succinctly to someone else

That is real learning! And the cool thing is that a year from now while I most likely will have forgotten the details, he will know them – names, dates and locations.

I see them learning. I see them learning all the time.

And finally, a few days ago we completed a project that has been in limbo for months now and today I was able to grab a picture. We were going to move the big boys out to the toy room, and have Tegan and Everett share their current room. But midway through the move (we had dressers hanging out in our computer room in the middle of the house for months) I realized that while they were anxious to have their own space, they really weren’t quite ready to sleep there. Plus Everett still wanted roommates, and Tegan was still quite happily sharing our bed. So we cleaned up the toyroom, moved out some toys, moved in their dressers, but kept all the beds as-is. We picked up another TV ($25 from Craigslist. Thank you Craig Newmark.) and hooked up the PS2. We set up the futon that’s been sitting in there mostly unused and usually buried under “stuff.” They now have their own hangout room slash den slash video game room, and they are very excited to decorate it and make it their own. And, we now have the PS2, PS3, and Wii all hooked up to different TVs, and could theoretically have all three systems in use at once. Awesome.


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For the Birds


Day 7 – Make ornaments and have a playdate with new friends

The boys had already designated their suncatchers as ornaments, so today they decided to string popcorn to put on the trees outside. They didn’t do it for too long, but they had fun, and the birds got a tasty treat.


This afternoon, we had friends over to play… new friends who are also homeschoolers, and share so many of our same ideals. While we’re friends with all kinds of people (and I encourage the kids to believe that differences are good!) sometimes it’s nice to connect with people who are on the same page in life. It was a very refreshing, and much needed, visit.

Less than three weeks till Christmas!

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Since there’s no place to go…


Day 3 – Make paper snowflakes & mail holiday cards to thank our troops

The kids and I stayed close to home today, enjoying some stillness after a whole day out yesterday. Everett and I made paper snowflakes (Paxton just made one, and Spencer opted out) and in between snipping and folding, he made several virtual snowflakes too. Love this site!

Snow Days

We also went to this site, Let’s Say Thanks, to choose some cards to send to those serving overseas.

And finally, a little Everett funny to share from the day: This morning’s Jesse Tree ornament was a ladder, representing Jacob’s dream. I started reading the passage to them, explaining about a dream with a ladder that rose all the way to heaven. Everett’s eyes lit up with recognition.

“Hey, I remember that!”

“Oh you heard about it in church?”

“Yeah…” Thinks about it some more. “No, wait. I think maybe it was on Tom and Jerry. And it was an escalator, not a ladder. But it did go all the way up to the clouds!”

I love him.






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